Psychological Intelligence and Substantial IQ Intelligence discussed…a tip off the previous iceberg. I am expanding on ideas shared in the subsequent video: Antinatalism and Melancholy CII: Are Frustrated People today Wise? By YouTuber, Anekantavad Link to the aforementioned: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ST4VGtgYv1g&element=g-u-u (I have no notion why my video turned out like this. LOL, but I am not undertaking it in excess of. I will figure that out for upcoming time.) 1 extra thought, I imagine that melancholy can happen to an personal who has acquired and routines Psychological Intelligence, and that stated personal will most possible be in a position to make it again out of the darkish tunnel of gloom and have acquired something from the expertise.
Substantial IQ and Melancholy
Hello my dear friend. I truly hope that life is interesting and in a sense you are controlling your reality. I hope in a short while to see more videos from you and to share some of the things I have been up too. Please remember that any form of thought is to be controlled by the conscious mind, the sub con is it's slave. Until then my friend, control, relax, learn, and create.
thanks, I try 😉
No, Wally World, and you are a funny guy. lol
did you get your cam from pyrrho?
For some odd reason this comment was marked as spam; however, I rectified that. lol The bigger the band-aid, the blurrier the potential solution will become. Need coffee, LOL. Getting kids off to school! hugs
You are right, I did not mean to say it that way. I have not even had my first cup of coffee yet. I need to do that and think a bit before I answer this. I am not sure if I will do a video to clarify or write it in the description. Thank you for not assuming that I meant to say it that way, and you do bring up very valid points that I would like I too think are other variables that can present different case scenarios on said subject matter.
The bandaid analogy is great here! If we don't work at our own core issues then the bigger the bandaid has to be. And yes it is different for all of us.
What 'use' are brain shenanigans if there's no felt component to give the criteria for evaluation?
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Yeah… First time a Psychologist asked me to unpack my "normal" childhood, I began to understand. It's one of the "Sins of the Parents visited onto the Children, unto the 7th Generation" – mechanisms. While our Grandpas eroded & salinated the Soil, desertifying the Land ; the Grannys screamed, & shook, & beat, their Babies. And the Toddlers Role-Model on what they See & Hear, & then Hardwire it as their default-mode. Ingrained. Ciao !
Yes, now that is one example of you being in control yet it is not longer work, how you feel now is natural to you; though, it had not always been. Progress, congrats!
Thank God that Green Scale had a place within this presentation. LOL I concur, early parenting is critical; however, I have really learned a lot due to not having the ideal childhood, yet it was better than what my mom went through and her mom…each generation is getting better in our family tree.
Men are thought of as logical, right. And, women thought of as emotional, right. I know, this too varies. However, men are the Rulers of this World, for the most part, right. We can Factually see that right, if we believe the news and the players we see on the stage. How many emotional Women rulers do you see on the stage. So, I think too much logic is being exercised, which is in essence kind of funny, considering a balance in reasoning of both sides of the brain would help tremendously.
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G'day Lisa ! I love the Green-Scale effect, because that's the essence. Smart & Stupid is on one Scale, Catatonic Depression & Ecstatic Mania are on a different ruler, & Selfish/Selfless is yet a different measure. The Limibic System hardwires at age 3… Under Stress we revert to how Toddlers FEEL. Emotional Intelligence is the degree to which we intellectualise & supervise our inner Toddler. Early Parenting is CRITICAL. Ciao !
Furthermore, to have sympathy is devotion to help others for self. Empathy and Sympathy do require one to have and utilize their emotional part of self. Empathy exercises emotional intelligence, thus to act on behalf of another WITHOUT the NEED to have something back for self. A Free Deed, it takes emotional maturity (intelligence) to experiences this feeling of doing something for another Just Because.
Well the only reason why I mentioned Nietzsche is because he made philosophy into psychology. The study of the mind, rather than of the thought. Your knowledge comes from experience not from your emotions. You grow, but I see what you mean. And the leaders of the world they are far from logical. They are led by people with highly emotional state, and that emotional state of the populous. For that you only have to look at Utilitarianism and see how badly the minority are getting screwed.
I concur. And sometimes some people know which buttons to push, knowing full well you'll explode. I ran into my ex-hub and he was shocked that his "baiting" no longer fazed me. We are now able to laugh at a lot of things because the stakes aren't as high.
PS: I never said it would be an easy skill to learn, and learning it is individual; thus, there is no on technique, theory, philosophy, or ideology that will fit all. Big note, notice how logic is ruling the world today without emotional intelligence developed by said leaders. War and the need to CONTROL the EXTERNAL, and OTHER Human beings.
I base my thoughts and ideas on my experiences. I am sharing my take on the topic at hand and do not feel the need to give Nietzche's ideas any more credit than my ideas. Like I said, this life thing…very individual indeed and emotions are part of our operating system. Both sides of our brain when used skillfully can be quite an amazing thing.
Empathy does not exist. We are selfish by nature. Nietzsche did say, if you recognize the truth, you will rise above become and over man. What is the purpose of empathy? Help thy neighbor? All empathy is devotion that are for others to only help yourself. To be truly empathetic one must remove the perpetual notion of feeling of self congratulations but be free from it. Free from emotions and help just because of help sake. Such a good act that was, you tell yourself, defeating the purpose.
One cannot have empathy unless one has developed their emotional intelligence, and if you ask me, this world could use more empathy and less sympathy. Where do I have the most control, it starts with me, and what I do, say, how I react, to be accountable to MYSELF, for what I DO. Then, to know what I can change and what I cannot change. What those answers will be is individual, many lives, many experiences, and many perspectives.
One must recognize that feelings are just responses to stimuli of outside sources. Feelins are useless once recognition takes places. So there's no such thing as emotional intelligence, just intelligence. Am I seeing as a monster just because I don't have any empathy or sympathy for my fellow humans? Do I not see that they are in their situations because they didn't see the 900 pound elephant sneaking in their kitchen. Am I suppose to feel sorry when people make mistakes based on their emotions?
Without emotions or feelings, you most likely would have been dead a long time ago. However, emotions and feelings that are out of control will kill you slowly, over time…not to mention the suffering you will most likely bring into those who you come into contact with due to your inability to cope with the external world…holding a job could present you with a big problem if you do not have internal locus of control, and this must be learned, and is an individual kind of a thing.
Maybe according to Aristotle yes emotions are grounded and give way to truth. So lets just say, we conquer with Aristotle. But Logic is the form of our thoughts, and emotions being that of our substance in our thoughts. But logic makes your thoughts, i.e. feelings make sense from any perspective by seeing the actuality of them and what they really represent. Then when that happens truth is seen. But one must recognize feelings are useless brain reaction shenanigans.
Internal Locus of Control may be the verbiage your used to. When one comes from an External Locus of Control (Low Emotional Intelligence) the manifestation is one that is emotionally out of control, because to react is all the individual does…react to whatever comes their way…thus the saying goes…the experience will make you or break you…learn or not. The technique(s) in learning said skill set is individual.
I am more than half way through this video and it is an excellent share, thank you.
Hello, Inspirediam!
I think you should rework your message to include the Emotional Quotient. I have taken several IQ and EQ tests, and while the IQ tests are what most people are somewhat familiar with, I would guess that many people have never heard of the EQ test.
First, there are two types of unrelated EQ tests. One type has to do with measuring the intelligence of lower animals by comparison to humans, by means of measuring the relative brain to body ratios. The other EQ test…
You can't make a wise decision without emotion. The whole concept of 'true' is grounded in emotionality.
ILOC, which deals with ambition itself, and ELOC deals with outside influences. These theories are both flawed. All this tells me is the nature of control. Yes, I know these theories. Logic divorces itself from emotions. Not to say, I don't have emotions, but I control them, it's a discipline. Emotional psychologist will tell you that, emotions are destructive and illogical that dwell within us. We can recognize them and logically decide what course of action to take. Logic over emotions any day
Seneca had very interesting ideas on anger and control
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Good points raised 🙂
Internal Locus of Control, maybe that wording might ring a bell with you.
There's not such a thing as emotional intelligence. Emotions are by definition illogical. That's why they are called emotions. You can not make a correct decisions bases on an alter state of consciousness and that is what emotions are. You cannot see how things around you truly are until you divorce yourself from your emotions. I been called an emotionless robot, I say, I am more of a logical robot than anything else. There is recognition of an emotion, which is nothing more responds to stimuli.
Yes, one can indeed have LOW Emotional Intelligence. That video you listed link to is a great representation of that. LOL
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Oh, I don't know…I really should install the software, maybe that is it. I just used the card to upload it, so did not do it directly from the cam. However, if it is defective…well…damn.
Greeny screeny=defective camera….me=Mensa=depression…peas out..:)