A short yet thoughtful text message can put a smile on someone’s face and make their day much better. Add a flirty note to the text, and you can spice up the recipient’s otherwise uneventful day. If you want to break the ice with a guy you have just exchanged numbers with, tell your boyfriend or husband that you love him and are thinking of him, or get him excited for the evening ahead, a simple text message is sometimes all you need.
If you’re looking for ideas, here you’ll find 13 excellent text messages for that special guy in your life.
- Hey you!
This is a classic conversation starter that works every time. Add a winking face emoji at the end, and you have a flirty text that could take the rest of the conversation in a very different direction.
- Good morning, handsome!
What better way to start a day than by sending positive wishes to someone you like? Plus, you’re paying them a compliment (“handsome”) that early in the day, thus ensuring they’ll get up on the right foot.
- You were phenomenal last night.
No matter how confident he seems to be, every guy loves to hear that his partner is happy with his performance. Tell it to him early in the morning, and he’ll be smiling all day.
- I can’t stop thinking about you, thank you for a wonderful night.
This is a slightly milder version of the previous text, but it still conveys a similar message. Plus, the fact that you have spent hours thinking about the guy is sure to give him a major confidence boost.
- I just woke up and here you are – already on my mind.
Whether you have only met the guy last night or have already spent a night with him, just knowing that you’re thinking about him from the moment you wake up is sure to make him feel great.
- Hey, what are you doing? I just got out of the shower…
Your guy’s lunch break is about to begin, so why not ask him what he’s up to and mention what you’re doing at the moment? You never know, his plans might suddenly change…
- Hey, where have you been hiding?
If after a day or two of inactivity he suddenly decides to send you a message, this is a perfect way to show him that you’re happy he finally reached out to you without coming across as too desperate.
Prelude to Sexting
- Hmmm, help me decide – red bra or black bra?
This is about as flirty as it can get and an obvious prelude to sexting, ideal for a slow afternoon. Attach photos of yourself wearing the two bras and there’s no way for the guy to misinterpret the signals.
- I’m bored, send me a picture!
Add a winking smiley at the end, and you have as obvious a prelude for sexting as any. If the guy doesn’t understand your cue (highly unlikely, but you never know), follow it up with “You send me yours, I’ll send you mine”.
- What are you wearing?
If you’re uncomfortable exchanging photos, the good old “What are you wearing?” almost always does the trick. It worked on rotary phones and early online chat rooms, so why shouldn’t it work for smartphone sexting?
Making Plans for the Evening
- When you get home, you better be ready!
What better way to help a guy get through a boring day at work than by promising him a memorable night right afterward? You’ll boost his morale and motivate him to work faster and better.
- I have some plans for us tonight. You just lie back and relax.
The promise of an exciting evening certainly makes it easier to get through another dull day at work. Send this message around lunchtime to reenergize your guy and help him beat the “afternoon slump”.
- I had an R-rated dream about you. Can’t wait to tell you all about it tonight.
If you wanted to get the guy you like excited about your upcoming date, a message like this is sure to do the trick. Plus, with a whole day’s worth of buildup, he is sure to be in his element come evening.
Over to You
Depending on the effect you want to achieve, one or more of these messages will sure come in handy the next time you want to send something heartfelt or provocative to your boyfriend, husband, or just a guy you like. And if you do send him one of these texts, leave us a comment to tell us how he responded.
Do you have other text message ideas to send to a guy you like? Share your favorites in the comments below!